HAPPINESS IS...

Questions For You - Did You Ever Get In Trouble As A Teenager?

I want to see your dark side! So here's my question for you...

What did you get in trouble for as a teenager?

My answer... I'm purposely avoiding my fake ID story because that's just too embarrassing. So let's take it back to the beginning of my awkward years. Age 13, when I discovered rebellion. Or my idea of rebellion. Let it be known, I was the smarty pants choir girl, voted "most likely to succeed." During a choir concert one night, my friend Amy and I decided to change up the choreography at the last minute without asking the teacher. Instead of raising our arms up at the end of the song, we turned back to back and folded our arms across our chests. You know, how people stood in the 90's. Our choir director saw it and gave us the ultimate death stare. His face changed from white to red to purple in a matter of seconds. After the show, he walked straight over to my parents and threatened to kick me out of choir and flunk me! Can you believe it? He ended up not, but let's just say I was no longer his favorite pupil. And that, my friends, is how I tarnished my goodie goodie reputation in middle school.


{Photo by Annija Muižule}

Lost Schoolgirls

I keep coming back to this lost schoolgirl series. I really know nothing about the photos, except that they were taken by Japanese photographer, Osamu Yokonami. And they stir my emotions. In a strange yet alluring and slightly creepy way.

Do you they have the same effect on you?


{Images by Osamu Yokonami}

DIY - Staggered Hanger

Have you noticed lately how interior designers are using clothing as art when photographing their rooms? They'll hang one statement dress or outfit on the wall to personalize the space. Especially in nurseries. Those miniature sweaters are just so darn cute!

Jennifer came up with a stylish way to recreate this look, using a staggered hanger similar to one designed by Christina Liljenberg Halstrøm for Skagerak. All you need is a dowel, a drill, and some parachute rope.

Not only is this DIY aesthetically pleasing, but it's practical. I remember as a child, my mom telling me to lay out my clothes the day before so I wouldn't be late for school. Do you ever hang up your outfits before you wear them?


{Images by A Merry Mishap}

The Rain Paintings

We're having the most electifying thunderstorm as I write this post. It's exhilarating. I'm cozied up in sweats and sipping a hot cup of raspberry leaf tea as the heavy rain pounds down upon my roof. The final days are summer are washing away.

In honor of the weather, I'd like to share with you a sweet little cloud series by Brazilian artist, Gustavo Sousa. He uses rain droplets from different parts of the world in his watercolor paint. A simple and beautiful concept, don't you think?

Maybe I'll make my own Seattle rain painting today.


{Images via The Rain Paintings}

A Celebration of Life

Tomorrow, my extended family on my mother's side are flying in from all over the country for my grandparents' joint memorial service, or rather a joyful celebration of their lives. We'll be gathering together on a chartered boat to scatter their ashes into the Puget Sound, then we'll tell stories and sing their favorite songs around the bonfire.

What are your plans for the weekend, loves? I hope you have a memorable one, full of moments that take your breath away. Enjoy the links...

30 ideas to get you in the mood for fall. Then 20 more!

Do you like grooms in colored suits?

DIY book page wallpaper.

Honey parmesan roasted brussels sprouts.

Should you turn your passion into a job?

10 awesome online shops.

5 homemade bread recipes for autumn.

What classic kids' books are really about.

The marriage adjustment period.

A lovely paper-cut calligraphy cake topper.

 

And some posts of mine you may have missed...

• A Virtual Letterpress
• Plants From Another Galaxy
• CatAtelier

 

{Pre-edited image by André Hofmeister}

The Lolas - LA's Premiere All-Female Vocal Group

Calling ALL of Los Angeles... meet The LOLAs. Twelve talented ladies in one sexy all-female vocal group. If a few of their faces look familiar, it's because my besties are the founding co-directors. Every time they perform, I kick myself for moving away to Seattle.

They're having a big show at The Roxy tomorrow (Friday) night. Here's what I suggest you do:

1. Go 
2. Scream 'I love you!' after each song
3. Give them a big hug for me after the set
4. Report back.

Sound like a plan?

LOLAs... knock 'em dead!


{Photos by Matt Halvorson}

GET HAPPY 12: Urban Float Sensory Deprivation Tanks

Over the weekend, we had our first sensory deprivation tank adventure. Which seems like a strange thing to do on our anniversary, but it was quite an enjoyable experience. Hal has been wanting to try it for some time.

Seattle has a place in Fremont called Urban Float. You climb into a personal space-aged pod filled with water and a crazy amount (850 pounds) of epsom salts. This enables your body to easily float, as it would in the Dead Sea. The water is the exact same temperature as your skin, so after a few minutes, you lose awareness of where your body ends and where the water begins. The outside world disappears as you float in total darkness.

So why on earth would people do this? Think of it as a shortcut to achieving meditative states which would normally take years of practice to produce. When your body is not fighting gravity, it gets to rest and heal while your brain pumps out dopamine and endorphins. Over 30 years of scientific research has shown floatation therapy to improve the overall function of the brain and central nervous system while increasing anxiety-reducing and immune-boosting alpha brainwaves.

I'll have to admit, I was a bit nervous before our 1-hour session. What if I get claustrophobic? (I did for a few seconds). But once I let my body fully relax, my mind did too. I even fell asleep for a moment or two. The feeling of being weightless allowed me to enter a deep meditative state. And like anything, you get better with practice. Unless you specify otherwise, colored lights and gentle music play the first 10 minutes, shut off for 45 minutes, then reappear in the last 5 to bring you back to earth. For me, the music helped me fidget less and control my thoughts. If I float again, which I'm hoping to, I'd keep the music going the entire hour.

Do you have sensory deprivation tanks where you live? Would you ever try it out?


{Pre-edited image via Home Dsgn}

Anniversary Guest Book Wish Boats

Our first anniversary was mellow and sweet. We ate breakfast at our favorite house-converted-restaurant, Wild Mountain Cafe, took a paddleboat out for a spin on Greenlake, relaxed in sensory deprivation pods (more on that tomorrow), window shopped in Ballard, and enjoyed a lovely dinner at Serafina.

But before the sun went down, we started a new tradition. If you remember from the wedding, we asked our guests to write down a few words on origami paper and fold them into wish boats.

Write us a love note. Your hopes & advice. Leave us your wishes. And fold it up nice.
Every year. On our anniversary. One boat will be read. And set off to sea.

All year, we kept them in my grandfather's suitcase, together with the un-erased chalkboard sign. Down by the lighthouse at Discovery Park beach, we selected one boat to read and release out into the water.

I just so happened to choose my college roomie's paper boat, who just so happens to be a gifted writer. We snapped a photo of her touching note, so we wouldn't forget her words. It was the perfect wish for our first paper boat release, the first of many more to come.

Do you have any anniversary traditions?

Our Wedding Video By Son of Sharkpig

 

I've been holding onto this video for a long time, waiting for our 1-year anniversary to share it!

The talented Mr. Steve Pappin of Son of Sharkpig filmed and edited it for us. I can't imagine how long it took to turn 12+ hours of Super 8 footage into a 5 minute song. And this is just the first video - we'll be getting second reception vignette later on.

I hope you enjoy it as much as we do, friends. I tear up every time I watch.

P.S. If you're curious, the song is from our soundtrack: Excuses by The Morning Benders.


{Pre-edited image by: Regine Ali; Video by: Son of Sharkpig}

The Perfect Imperfect Love

Bob Marley will always remind me of Hal. And this quote will always remind me of our relationship. I love the message, don't you?

This weekend marks our 1-year wedding anniversary. My goodness, how the days fly by. Since we're celebrating later in the month with our coastal road trip, we have nothing big planned. Maybe a nice dinner out with some live jazz. On Monday, I'll be sharing with you our official wedding video by Son of Sharkpig! Stay tuned friends. It's a goodie.

Have the loveliest of weekends. And please enjoy the links...

 

How to make a rug with a paperclip.

Yay, it's time for fall boots.

A cute and clever way to hide the ugly remote.

I've gotta try this bitchin' sauce.

An illustrated bucket list is an excellent idea.

Turn a men's dress shirt into a girly apron.

Have you ever tried tunisian tea?

An office/studio of my dreams!

A sweet little set of felt pumpkins.

How to style a hair bow.

 

And some posts of mine you may have missed...

• Lovely Ladies
• Circles of Life
• Why I Love Him - Reason #98

 

{Pre-edited image by Flumina}

Questions For You - Do You Have A Celebrity Encounter Story?

I realize some some of you may not have met a celebrity before. But since I lived in LA for 10+ years, it was bound to happen. And no matter how common the sightings, I was star struck every time.

So here's my question for you...

Do you have a favorite celebrity encounter story?

My answer... The very first celebrity I met was P. Diddy, who went by Puff Daddy at the time. It was my freshman year of college at USC and the Shrine Auditorium was right across the street from my dorm. I spotted him chilling on the corner in a fur coat. I knew I'd kick myself if I didn't say hello. So I walked right up to him and did just that. He said, "what up" with a chin raise and a smirk. Then I ran away.

My second celebrity encounter happens to be my favorite. My friend Candy and I were somehow invited to a private Oscars party at the Chateau Marmot in Hollywood. As we were leaving out the back, Ethan Hawke, Matt Dillon and Frank Whaley were just arriving. Ethan, still married to Uma Thurman at the time, eyed us as we walked passed. So we promptly turned around and followed him back inside. I raced in front of him and held out my hand..."you're Ethan, right?" all coy and nonchalant (Candy teases me to this day). He laughed and flirted and kissed our hands. They invited us to their table, but we had to leave. The rest of the conversation was a blur, but I will never forget my special connection with Ethan Hawke. Maybe that's why he and Uma didn't work out. Just sayin...


{Pre-edited image via Mistress Marilyn Monroe}

Watercolor Snapshots of Your Vacation

This is such a fun idea. Send Brittany your digital vacation photos, and she'll make you a set of 4x6 simplified watercolor paintings. I'd love to turn my honeymoon into art!

She lost her camera while traveling in Panama so her husband asked her to paint their photos. He was kidding, but that's exactly what Brittany did. And now she paints them for others.

What vacations would you want illustrated?


{Images via Illustrated Vacation}

The Red Tour

How was your weekend, friends? My ears are still ringing from 20,000 high-pitched screaming little girls! Melanie, my bridesmaid who sang at our wedding, scored us some tickets to the Taylor Swift concert on Saturday. She's been flying all over the world singing back-up for T-Swizzle!

I have a ton of respect for Taylor after watching her own the stage. Melanie tells me what a smart, kind-hearted and grounded person she is.

And as for Mel, she absolutely shined. I'm so proud of that girl. Watching your friends live their dream is the greatest inspiration.


{Images by: 1. and 2. Shannon Eileen; 3. TSwiftUpdates; 4. Hapaila; 5. Jasmine Star; 6. Shannon Eileen}

Being With Those I Love

I've had a rather rough week, but I thank my lucky stars for Fridays and Walt Whitman. His poem, I Sing the Body Electric, puts things in perspective...

I have perceiv’d that to be with those I like is enough,
To stop in company with the rest at evening is enough,
To be surrounded by the beautiful, curious, breathing, laughing flesh is enough,
To pass among them or touch any one, or rest my arm ever so lightly round his or her neck for a moment, what is this then?
I do not ask any more delight, I swim in it as in a sea.

I've read that verse about 20 times while writing this post and it gives me shivers every time. This weekend, I get to spend time with my own beautiful, curious, breathing, laughing flesh. I get to watch my girl Mel sing with Taylor Swift on stage and hang with her after the show. Then my family and I are planning to play a round or two of golf for my dad's birthday on Labor Day.

Have a beautiful 3-day weekend surrounded by those you love. I'll see you again on Tuesday! Until then, here are a few fun links...

Camera essentials for bloggers.

A glam gold leaf desk makeover.

Turn frappuccino bottles into milk bottles.

Date night idea: beach party for two.

How to manage all your social media.

A DIY geometric mobile.

The cutest rainy day lunch for kids.

Oh if this island cabin were mine.

Brides, spice up your photobooth with slo-mo!

A simple pleasure: water with rosemary.

And some posts of mine you may have missed...

• Making Salt
• Oscar The Hospice Cat
• A Messy Engagement

 

{Image via Grown-Up Shoes}

A New Way To Dinner Party

Meg certainly has the right idea here. Dinner with a 360 degree view. Just round up your best buds, ask them to bring an appetizer, pack a pitcher of sangria, and drive out to the middle of nowhere! 

A vintage travel trailer would be nice for photos, but not a necessity. Oh and a rainbow wouldn't hurt either. Have you ever done something like this? 


{Images by The Egg}

Blimp Rizzy

The styling behind the summer lookbook for Blimp Rizzy, a line of limited-edition minimalist clutches, is pretty clever, don't you think? 

I'd be all about the clutch if I wasn't so spacey at times. Considering how often I leave my doggie bags full of food at restaurants, my sunglasses on public transportation, and my ID at bars, carrying a clutch for everyday use probably isn't the best idea. 

Are you a clutch lover?


{Images by Stacy Newgent}

Scout's Honor Co.

These awesome greeting cards by Scout's Honor Co. are making me so excited for our upcoming road trip. Inspired by vintage road signs and classic Americana, designer Annemarie Buckley is doing everything right.

I can't believe Labor Day weekend is just around the corner. Do you have any end-of-summer adventures planned? 

P.S. Thank you for all your travel suggestions! We've finally nailed down our itinerary.. but left a little room for spontaneity. September 26th can't come soon enough!


{Images by Scout's Honor Co.}

40 Years of Marriage

Over the weekend, my parents celebrated their 40th wedding anniversary. They met in high school and fell in love on a band trip to Europe. He played the drums. She played the bassoon. They attended college together, married after graduation and had two (bratty yet adorable) kids at 23 and 25. They raised us broke while paying off student loans and attending grad school. I'm not sure how they did it, but here they are. Forty years and one grandchild later, still going strong, still head over heels in love.

Thank you, Mom & Pop, for being an example. For teaching me how to love, forgive and persevere. As Hal and I near our 1-year anniversary, we are humbled and inspired by your commitment to one another. We aspire to follow your lead, so 40 years from now, we can celebrate the same.

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!

Leaps of Faith

I've taken many leaps of faith in my life. One off a bridge to nowhere with a bungee cord attached to my ankles and one out of a perfectly good airplane with a parachute strapped to my back. These experiences, coupled with the fearlessness of youth, gave me courage to leap in life and love, most of which I belly flopped. But out of all the unsightly descents, there were still a few swan dives with minimal splash.

I've been trying to remind myself of this as I scout out a new path for myself. There have been a couple of crazy ideas brewing in my head as of late. One in particular I've been plotting or years, afraid to take a chance. This weekend, I plan to take action. And then maybe one day, I'll have the nerve to tell you all about it!

Do you have any risky aspirations you'd like to pursue, but you're worried about the outcome? Have a courageous weekend, my friends. Here are your links...

An enviable home studio space.

40 innovative grilled cheese sandwiches.

This is how you bring orange into the dining room.

I would have turned this indoor pool into a sunken conversation pit.

An interactive haunted children's museum in Tokyo.

Ever wondered how to make carrot noodles?

This is how my husband learned to knit.

Fun online font flashcards.

Make a swing out of a skateboard deck.

Orange Is The New Black's prison recipes!

 

And some posts of mine you may have missed...

• Watercolor Woodlands
• Peanut Butter Dynamite
• The End Of The Meal

{Pre-edited image via Thoughts By Natalie}

 

Questions For You - What Movie, TV Show, or Book Last Made You Cry?

The older I get, the more emotional I become. Has that happened to anyone else? It doesn't take much for me to cry these days. And I'm not just talking sad tears. Happy ones too. I actually enjoy the release and the knowledge that my heart is open, working as it should.

So my question for you:

What was the last movie, television show, or book that made you cry?

My Answer... The movie that last made me full on cry, err sob, or rather heave in uncontrollable spasms, was a little independent film called Hachi. Have you seen it? Ignoring the fact that Richard Gere plays the lead role, I decided to watch it on Netflix one night in bed while Hal was asleep beside me. Without giving it away, it's a beautiful remake of a Japanese film and true story about a dog's undying loyalty to his owner. I cried the entire second half and for an hour after it was done, waking poor Hal up with my hysterics. Dog movies. They do it to me every time.


{Image via Paper Thin Walls}

A Table In A Bag

Table-in-a-bag, where have you been all my life? Apparently Crate & Barrel all this time. Danni brought hers along on their recent park outing and I love how it transforms your average picnic into an elegant affair. Definitely more portable than the card tables we hauled around for Diner En Blanc!

But still, it's not quite as cool as this vintage table-and-benches-in-a-briefcase.


{Images via Crate & Barrel}

Get Happy 11: Having A Sibling

I posted this photo of me and my brother on Instagram during Siblings Day a few months back. Nerding out on top of the kite hill at Gasworks Park, wearing matching black socks and shorty shorts.

We're two years apart. And although we had our normal share of bouts growing up, for the most part we were buddies, partners in bed jumping crime, couch cushion fort architects, and kids show radio hosts. We looked out for each other. Or mostly, he looked out for me.

One of my favorite stories our mom tells, is about my first week of kindergarten. She asked my brother, a 2nd grader at the time, to play with me at recess so I wouldn't be alone. Except she only meant the first few days. Many months later, he asked our mom if he could join his own friends at recess. She was shocked that all that time, he was still watching after me. Now that's brotherly love.

The reason I'm bringing up our relationship for this week's Get Happy post, is because I read a fascinating statistic about the correlation between siblings and happiness. Harvard conducted one of the longest and most comprehensive studies of human development, the 75 year old Grant Study, which recently reached some interesting conclusions. One of which is this: 93% of the sample group, who were happily thriving at age 65, had a close relationship with a sibling.

That's a pretty strong majority. I personally love having a brother, especially now that we're older. And I agree that having him in my life heightens my level of happiness. But I know plenty of proud only-children who wouldn't have changed a thing. And unfortunately, having a sibling is not something you can control.

What do you think? Do you have a brother or sister who you feel contributes to your happiness?

The Perfect Old-Hollywood Wedding Gown

Yes, my wedding has come and gone. But that doesn't stop me from drooling over wedding gowns. Isn't this old-Hollywood stunner a dream? It's handmade by Gibson Bespoke out of the U.K. with thousands of champagne colored paillettes.

It would have been perfect for my original extravagent black tie James Bond-style wedding plans in a Vancouver castle overlooking the sea... before I got real with our budget!


{Images by Debbie Bailie-Collins}

We Are Shaped By Our Thoughts

Have a mindful weekend, my loves. Full of joyful thoughts to shape your days. Here are a few happy links to help...

Discover the artists of Instagram. 

A map of Manhattan using only handwritten directions.

How to make the ultimate comfort food by scratch.

DIY feather wall art.

Tips for traveling on the cheap without roughing it.

I almost made manchego quince skewers for our Diner En Blanc.

A fun way to give cash as a gift.

I could get behind overalls again if they looked like this.

How to throw a proper Mexican fiesta.

A round up of beach reads for the remaining days of summer.

 

And some posts of mine you may have missed...

• Monday Motivation
• Field Candy Tents
• Leaves In The Mail

{Image via Model Mayhem}

(The Other) Dîner En Blanc Seattle

My friend Eva invited me to Diner En Blanc, an all-white flash mob picnic dinner party, inspired by the original 15,000-person invite-only event in Paris. New York and LA followed suit, so it was only a matter of time before Seattle organized one of their own. I had been hearing about it for a few years and jumped at the chance to attend!

The location is kept a secret until the day of. Everyone must dress in white, bring their own tables, chairs, linens, dinnerware, food and drinks. People are expected to conduct themselves with the utmost style and class. Despite Seattle's informal reputation, our group pulled all the stops to make it an extra elegant affair. Flowers, candles, champagne, the works.

It was a magical evening under a pleasant grove of trees in Volunteer Park. An acoustic guitarist gently strummed in the background as we nibbled on cheeses, baguettes, fruit salad, caprese skewers and quiche. After the sun went down, everyone packed up their things, gathered up their trash, and went along their merry way. We were the last to leave.

The next morning, Hal sent me an email from work. "Did you go to the wrong park?" he asked, with a link to a write up in the Puget Sound Business Journal. Confused, I skimmed the article. There was a Diner En Blanc that happened in another park, on another day. This one had 1000+ people. Ours had maybe 100? This one involved celebrity chefs and the who's who of Seattle. Ours involved us, I mean, the future who's who of Seattle! 

I started laughing and immediately forwarded the article to the rest of the girls. Apparently, we were invited to the other Diner En Blanc! The knock-off. But it didn't matter. We had a fabulous evening, feasting in the park with strangers in white, and enjoying each other's good company. I couldn't have asked for a more beautiful experience.

But if you want to invite us to the real Diner En Blanc next year... call me!  ;)

Planning A West Coast Road Trip

In late September, Hal and I will be flying down to Los Angeles for my college a cappella group's reunion and we want to drive his LA car back up to Seattle. We could do the trip in 20 hours. OR, take a leisurely scenic ride up the coast over the course of a week. Guess which option we chose? There's really no question.

We're turning it into a 1-year anniversary road trip! I just started mapping it out with Roadtrippers, my new favorite website/app. Have you used it before? It magically finds your route, locates accommodations, restaurants and attractions, gives turn by turn directions, and tells you how many miles and hours between each destination, even estimating the cost of gas. I've discovered so many beaches, hikes, historic landmarks, and quirky offbeat must-see stops.

But I'd also like to hear your suggestions. Have any of you done the LA to Seattle coastal road trip before? Let me know if there are any places we should visit along the way!


{Images by: 1. Smitten Studio; 2. Martha Stewart; 3. Brent Couchman; 4. The Grey Shades of Green; 5. Acres of Hope Photography}

Veggie Utensils

Swiss product designer, Qiyun Deng, created these beautiful disposable veggie utensils for a study on color, texture and casting. They're made from bioplastic PLA, a material usually derived from vegetable raw materials.

Unfortunately, they're still a concept at this point, but I can see them selling really well, can't you? Except I'd never want to throw them away!


{Images via THE Mag}

Yoga At Home

Yoga and I have an on and off relationship. My desire to practice comes in waves and I'll go months on a yoga high, then completely burn out. Not because I've stopped enjoying it. But because of the time it takes to find a class that fits into my schedule, drive there, find parking, etc.

So now, I'm trying yoga at home, using YogaGlo's online classes. Have any of you taken them? I started the 15-day free trial and realized that one of my favorite teachers at Exhale, the yoga studio went to in Venice, is one of the founding instructors: Jo Tastula. I love her soft soothing Australian accent. She has a ton of classes available at any time of the day, and you can filter by style, level, duration and specific use. When I tire of Jo's classes (if that's possible), there are 20+ other teachers to discover.

I'm not sure why I hadn't done yoga at home before. It's so much more convenient. If you're interested in trying it out as well, I've rounded up the essentials. Here's what you'll need...

1. iPad or laptop. It was a bit tricky locating a place to put my iPad in the tiny space I have available, but I found a nice spot for it on a footstool which gives me visibility during mat stretches and yoga flow both. If you're using an iPad, having a solid stand is a good idea. I love this driftwood dock from Anthro.
2. Yoga mat. I have a plain orange one, but if you like a little pizazz with your poses, there are quite a few pretty patterned mats out there.
3. Skidless towel. When I was doing hot yoga, my Yogitoes towel was a life saver. You throw it down over your mat so your feet don't slip around. I started using it for regular yoga as well, because it keeps the mat from getting dirty and the towel can simply be thrown in the wash.
4. Candles. Ambiance is very important to me, so scented candles are a must. I'm dying to try these ritual Magic Hour soy candles. They're infused with herbs and essential oils and the wax is nestled around a gemstone that you remove when burned down to keep as a talisman.
5. Bra top. One of the many perks to practicing yoga at home? You can wear anything you want and nobody will ever see you. Bring on the belly rolls! 
6. Block. I love these guys placed under my hips during shavasana. They're great for proper alignment and extra support.
7. Water bottle. As you know, it's important to stay hydrated. I find that I drink more when I put sliced cucumber and lemon into my water.
8. Yoga pants. Let's be honest, cute clothes are completely unnecessary when you're doing yoga at home. I usually wear grubby sweats. Heck, you could practice naked if you really wanted to. But I spotted these foldover frill pants from Free People and couldn't resist sharing them with you. Besides, sometimes having cute yoga clothes to wear is the best motivation to get started.

{Images via: Jago Yoga; 1. Anthropologie; 2. Free People; 3. Yogitoes; 4. Summerland; 5. Free People; 6. Anthropologie; 7. Lululemon; 8. Free People}

Good Thoughts

Roald Dahl was one of my favorite authors growing up. He sure knows a thing or two. Have a memorable weekend, my loves. Enjoy the links...

How one man measures the universe.

I can't get enough of SharkCat!

Cutie cloud coat hangers.

I'm going here next time I eat out. 

A chocolate exhibition in Tokyo.

My coffee table wants this book.

10 (+1) hints for a happy marriage.

Cheeky ant napkins for picnics.

Cats dressed as sushi.

How to keep house plants alive.

 

And some posts of mine you may have missed...

• A Steam Train Ride
• Before We Begin
• A Piano Birdcage

 

{Pre-edited image via: Charcoal Alley}

Questions For You - What Was The First Album You Ever Owned?

My question for you...

What was the very first album you ever owned? 

My answer... This will completely date me. As a child of the 80's, the first cassette tape I begged my mom for was Madonna's True Blue. Followed soon after by Tiffany's self-titled debut and Debbie Gibson's Electric Youth (I also owned the perfume). Wow, right? My first CD was one I WON at a middle school dance. For what, I'm not quite sure, but it probably had something to do with the dorky dance routines my friends and I made up. That album was MC Hammer's 2 Legit 2 Quit. And the first CD I purchased with my hard earned allowance was Pearl Jam's Ten (through BMG Music Service's 12 for the price of 1). Sigh, don't you miss the days of buying full albums and listening to them over and over and over again?

Your turn! Leave me a comment below...


{Image by Violet May}

Neon Accent Walls

I don't know if I could do it. But I'd dig it in your home!

Neon on the outside is another story. Our neighbors recently painted the trim around the windows of their cottage style house a bright neon yellow-green and I have to admit, it looks great next to the light grey siding. 


{Images via: 1. Agent Bauer; 2. Architecture Art Design; 3. Welke; 4. Peacy Cool Wow}

More Illustrated Recipes

I will never tire of illustrated recipes. Remember Claudia's? And the folks at They Draw And Cook? I'm thinking Felicita's might be my favorite.

What recipes would you want to have illustrated?


{Images by Felicita Sala}

Monkey's Fist Knots

How was your weekend, friends? We've been so lucky this summer, with the warm weather and boating opportunities. Hal's buddy invited us out on his new speedboat, at capacity with 11 people. It felt like the entire city was on the lake with water balloons and super-soakers. Here's my #1 tip for people who move to Seattle: find a friend with a boat!

When you're surrounded by so much water and maritime history, it's easy to fall for all things nautical. I'm loving Cassandra's hand-painted monkey's fist knots, inspired by the old sailors knots used for weighting rope. She made them to be used as hanging decor, but I might personally wear one as a statement necklace. Aren't they fun?


{Images by Cassandra Smith}

It's Not Your Job To Like Me

Sticking with the self compassion theme, this quote speaks to me. Like yourself, and others will too. Have a beautiful weekend, dear ones. It's Seafair in Seattle! We'll be relaxing on a boat with friends in the middle of Lake Washington. Enjoy yourselves!  Here are your links...

Make more time to make.

A cake made to look like the planet Jupiter.

If threw a cat-themed party, would you come?  

The 15 most difficult would-you-rather questions.

Paintings made with ice cream.

How to make a geometric paper garland.

Awesome photos of people sleeping.

A wooden spoon guestbook idea for foodies.

The cure for mosquito bites?

IKEA hack: a closet within a bookcase.

10 drool-worthy houseboats from around the world.

 

And some posts of mine you may have missed...

• Heart Rocks
• Berets
• Clear Balloons

{Pre-edited image by Anthropologie}

Questions For You - Are You An Introvert Or Extrovert?

Alright, friends. I'm doing it. I'm bring back my series, Questions For You. I've missed learning about what makes you tick. If you're a newer reader, the rules are simple. I ask a question. I give my answer. You give your answer in the comments. Ready? Let's go.

My question for you...

Are you an extrovert or an introvert?

My answer... I spent most of my life trying to convince myself I was an extrovert. Because I related introversion to being shy or anti-social. Extroverts were the cool popular kids. But as I've grown older, the more I've come to terms with who I really am. Yes, world, I am an introvert. And (finally) proud of it. Despite popular belief, most introverts are far from being timid or fearful. They love people and have many meaningful friendships. They simply need more alone time. If given the choice to attend a party or stay at home with a good book, I'd probably choose the later. If I'm around extroverts for long periods of time, I'm completely drained by the end of the day. Experts say that introverts' energy expands through reflection and dwindles during interaction. Do you agree?

P.S. Here's a fun illustrated guide to interacting with an introvert.


{Image via Kemukujara}

Native Shoes

How fun are these images from the Native Shoes' Spring/Summer 2014 catalogue? Props to art director, Adi Goodrich, for brilliantly pairing their colorful kicks with gravity defying fruits.

I'm all about the melon colored striped pair at the top. How about you?


{Images by Stephanie Gonot}

Get Happy 10: Self Compassion

For today's Get Happy post, let's talk about love and compassion. The kind we give to ourselves. Psychological research now proves that people who accept their imperfections and give themselves a break, tend to be happier and more optimistic.

In this study, Dr. Kristin Neff discovered that “the biggest reason people aren’t more self-compassionate is that they are afraid they’ll become self-indulgent. They believe self-criticism is what keeps them in line...because our culture says being hard on yourself is the way to be.”

If you could use some help in the self love department, there are a few tools to re-train your state of mind. Meditation is one of the best ways combat negative self-talk. Or take "compassion breaks" throughout the day, repeating affirmations like, “I’m going to be kind to myself in this moment.” And here are 50 more ways to give yourself a break.

I like to think I have a great deal of self compassion. I always treat myself to indulgences for task completion or a job well done. Maybe too much! I'm not afraid to say no to others when I need "me" time. But now and again, I catch my inner voice drilling into my self worth. Personally, I think the trick is to be conscious of it. Without judging yourself, gently turn the insult into praise. 

How kind are you to yourself?


{Pre-edited image by Thayer Allyson Gowdy}

Summer Blackberry Feta & Almond Salad

Did you have a fun weekend? We took the motorcycle out for a spin and stopped to pick some blackberries at the park. Hal captured this funny shot of me going at it with my helmet still on. Safety first!

We brought home a large tupperware full of berries and my first order of business was this salad. It's one of my summertime favorites. I can't get enough of the sweet earthy blackberries with salty feta and almonds over greens.

What's your favorite way to eat freshly picked blackberries?

P.S. You know it's blackberry season in Washington when the guy stopped at a red light in front of you hops out of his car, picks a few berries from the side of the road, pops them in his mouth and races back into his car as the light turns green.

An Adventure

Here's my big adventure for the weekend: cleaning out our rusty fridge and hauling in a new one from Home Depot. Like the rest of our house, the kitchen is tiny, and the old refrigerator blocks a lovely window to the backyard. Our landlord offered to reimburse us if we could find one that fit underneath the sill. We couldn't. But we did find two affordable shorty fridges to place side by side. His and hers. Here's hoping they fit all our food!

Have an adventurous weekend (more adventurous than mine, please) and do enjoy the links...

Polenta rounds, my next dinner on the grill.

A carpenter's work bench turned kitchen island.

Cheeky painted toe heels.

How to make oatmeal face wash.

Someone please buy this awesome boat-shaped bar.

Could you do the vegan before 6 diet?

If I sewed, I'd make this front-tie hoodie.

38 barn-style bedrooms.

Memorable wedding menu scrolls.

For whole food purists, make your own tofu.

 

And some posts of mine you may have missed...

• Hello Weather
• A Live Action Logo
• Fan Club 

 

{Image by Child At Heart Art}

Crystal Collections

I used to think crystals were new age woo-woo. But as I'm learning more and more about reiki and energy healing, it actually makes sense. My new fascination with gemstones has grown into a hobby of sorts. I've even started my own mini collection.

Right now, all my pretty rocks are hiding in velvet pouches and I'd love to put them on display. Yesterday, I came across Lauren's handmade wooden geometrical shelves. Problem solved. She sells them with crystal curio sets to start your own collection of clusters. Aren't they beautiful?

Do you collect crystals and gems?


{Images by Stone & Violet}

DIY Limoncello

When life gives you lemons... make limoncello. The tart and tangy flavors brings back wild memories of my semester abroad, speeding through Florence on the back of a Vespa with a boy named Nico.

Thanks Kristin for sharing your recipe! 


{Pre-edited images via Brit+Co}

Wearable Ferns

How beautiful are these wearable ferns? Jas of Frolic Storytelling teamed up with floral stylist, Alise of Sweet Marie Designs, for this creative concept shoot. I love them as hair pieces, but even more so has an arm cuff or belt.

Would you wear ferns as accessories?


{Images by The Daily Frolic}

Our Bed & Breakfast Sailboat Adventure

How was your weekend, friends?  We had a blast celebrating Hal's birthday. If you follow me on Instagram, you may have seen a few snapshots of our adventures, but I just had to share more on the blog.

I wanted Hal to wake up somewhere special on his birthday. So the day before, I rented a bed & breakfast sailboat through Airbnb. Her name is Lille Danser, a gorgeous 50' replica of an 1890's Danish revenue cutter, end docked on Bainbridge Island. 

When I was little, my parents used to give my me and brother clues to find our birthday gifts hidden around the house. So I tried my hand at some clues for Hal. I gave him 5 throughout the day, leading him to the boat...

1. Pack your pajamas, toiletries too, grab your helmet, vroooom vroooom.
Follow the clues, you're in for a treat, your wife has been sneaky, hold on to your seat!

Head in the direction, where the sun goes down, toward the waters, of the Puget Sound.
Take Alaskan Way, prepare to turn right, you'll see a big sign, for a magical sprite.

This one was a bit confusing, but I was referring to the ferry!

Enjoy the breeze, and beautiful view, when the ferry docks, follow the queue.
The island is small, but your thirst is big, turn left on Winslow, for something to swig.

I stalled by stopping at the market for a bottle of wine so my family could arrive before us.

My parents' pup, Rudy, was loving the salty sea air.  

Pull out your phone, for a trusty app, to find the marina, just follow the map.
Park in the lot, I'll lead the way, we've finally arrived, hip hip hooray!

My family was hiding in the cabin and surprised him when he got on the boat.

After our sail, I gave him his final clue...

Wait there's more, one last surprise, let's stay on board, to watch the sunrise.
Happy birthday love, tomorrow you'll be, the cutest 40-year-old, known to me. 

We slept like babies with the gentle rocking of the boat and woke up to the sun streaming through our porthole. Tami, our gracious host, provided us with blueberry muffins, yogurt, fruit and french press coffee.

After breakfast, we rode the motorcycle back to Seattle to shower up and meet our friends at the horse races! Then ended the evening with sushi and Jim Gaffigan at the Paramount. It was a birthday for the books!

Song Of The Open Road

Do you have any big plans for the weekend? By the time you read this, Hal and I will be on the open road. You'd never know by his baby face, but my hubs is turning 40! Before we celebrate with friends on Saturday, I'm surprising him, secret clues and all, with an overnight trip to only-I-know-where, which may prove challenging since he's the one driving the motorcycle! I'll tell you how it all turns out.

Enjoy the links!

How to style denim shorts.

A brilliant solution for wall paint touch-ups.

Personal eggplant pizzas.

A DIY shapeable headband scarf.

How to make Anthro's diorama bookends.

Are you into the tie-front top trend?

The proper way to cut a watermelon.

A beautiful tree branch hand rail.

Glam up the garden with gold antler hose holders.

Where can I find this over-water swing set?

 

And some posts of mine you may have missed...

• My Cuban Experience
• Polaroid Paintings
• Natural Head Crowns

 

{Pre-edited image via Imogene + Willie}

High School Fashion From 1969

I can always count on the LIFE archives to inspire. Groovy teenagers from the late sixties wearing leather fringe, graphic tights, corduroy bells and minis. What's not to love? 

“The latest rule in girls’ high school fashion,” LIFE magazine proclaimed in 1969,
“is that there isn’t any.”

{Image by Arthur Schatz}

My Wedding 25: The Grand Finale

As the dance party wound down, it was finally dark enough for our movie. The world premiere green carpet screening of 2G4E.

At dusk, the flowers were pulled from the firepit and a roaring bonfire was lit. It was a nice escape for our guests who wanted a break from the dance floor. Hal's brother, Greg, set up an awesome gourmet smores bar with marshmallows, chocolate, mint, peanut butter, and cookies instead of grahams.

We served buttered popcorn in an old-fashioned popper while my brother manned the projector. Blankets were spread out on the grass in front of my dad's homemade screen: a white sheet hung between two trees.

After the movie ended... we heard a BOOM! 

The fireworks show began. My dad and cousin shot them off up near the house. To the amazement of our California guests, this is one of the perks of living in the boonies of an unincorporated county in Washington. We bought extra mortar shells from 4th of July and saved them for the wedding. I later learned that a few friends were out in the row boat, stranded by the low tide, and watched the entire show from the water! 

It was magical. And the only way to end our grandiose backyard DIY wedding. With a big, loud, colorful bang.

My dear friends, I hope you've enjoyed our photos as much as I enjoyed sharing them. Thank you again, Heather and Jon, for perfectly capturing our love and editing a crazy amount of images for this little (25-post) series! It's been such a pleasure reliving every moment of our most special day.

Watch our WEDDING VIDEO by Son of Sharkpig!



{Images by One Love Photo; Movie by Katia Herrera}

Get Happy 09: Choosing To Choose Less

Any other Radio Lab fans out there? I listened to the episode, Choice, the other day and it got me thinking. They talked about how our generation's college seniors are faced with choice angst. They can't face a world in which everything is available. They're afraid to make a life decision, because walking through one door means other doors slam shut. And I, for one, completely identify.

The podcast referenced psychologist, Barry Schwartz, author of The Paradox of Choice, Why More Is Less, who argues that our happiness is affected by the amount of choices in front of us. When participants of a university study were faced with a smaller rather than larger array of chocolates, they were actually more satisfied with their tasting.

Too many choices can cause anxiety about missed opportunities and we blame ourselves if our decisions don't turn out as expected. Schwartz recommends we limit our choices and learn how to accept options that are good enough.

Interesting, right? But then again, sometimes, the wrong choices lead us to the right places. What do you think? I'd love to know your thoughts.


{Pre-edited image via Scout}

Sea-Tribes

“The Sea, once it casts its spell, holds one in its net of wonder forever.”
-Jacques Cousteau

Sea-Tribes is an ongoing photo essay by Ryan Tatar, documenting modern surf culture with nostalgic vintage film. Gorgeous, no?

Makes me miss southern California. Hal and I are planning a scenic road trip later this summer to take his LA car up to Seattle. I'm looking forward to photographing our own ocean scenes. Maybe I'll bring along the Polaroid camera. Have you ever driven up the entire west coast? 


{Images by Ryan Tatar}

Music & Cats

Truer words have never been spoken, Mr. Schweitzer. I feel you. Have an inspiring weekend, my darlings. Please enjoy the links...

Speaking of music & cats, this tattoo is perfect.

So is this kitty bracelet, meow.

5 things to do with broken eyeshadow.

The cutest baby onesies I ever did see.

How to make a minimal bouquet.

I'm obsessed with these Mexican blanket shorts.

25 pretty party garlands.

Cots may be underrated.

Wheat grass ice cubes for your complexion.

A sweet DIY picnic blanket.

And some posts of mine you may have missed...

• Cats. In. Space.
• Visualizing Vivaldi
• Outfits Inspired By Dishes 

{Pre-edited image by Mait Jüriado}

Convertible Wrap Bodysuits

I don't think I've worn a bodysuit since the early 90's, if you don't count Halloween. But that may change now that I've found Nadia Tarr's nautical inspired convertible wrap bodysuits.

Wouldn't they be perfect for a European summer vacation? Pack two of them with a couple skirts, shorts or capris, and you have an entire week's worth of clothing. Leave your bra at home! And they even look cute as-is, romper style.

Are you into bodysuits? 


{Images by Nadia Tarr}